Your body language is very important in attracting and seducing women. A word about the way that you move or walk within a club or indeed any social environment. Do not walk too fast or so slow that it looks like you do not know where you are heading to. That instantly conveys a lack of leadership quality. And this is a major turn off as far as female attraction is concerned. Walking upright, head up and with a purpose conveys the signal that you are a strong man who knows exactly where he is heading, literally. And believe it or not, this is one of those subconscious signals like the rest of body language that will trigger feelings in a woman to make her conclude instantly that you are either a leader therefore attractive, or not. Also, the same thing applies to the way you cast your eyes when looking at things around you within your environment. Do it in a purposeful way. Always look round slowly, and with a focused fixed gaze when looking at anything. If you do it too fast and darting your eyes here, there, and everywhere, you will come across like a rabbit caught in headlights, and that is very unattractive to women. Eye contact is the other very important part of body language in attraction. The basic rule of eye contact is this: you have to look everyone in the eye directly, always. Now this doesn't mean that you should stare people down and run the risk of looking like some sort of weird, retarded psycho. It means that as you walk around on a daily basis or interact with people in any social environment, you DO NOT avoid their eyes if theirs meets yours at any point. Again the reason this is important in attraction and social value is primal in nature. "Alpha," leader animals tend to have a commanding presence when in a social group and the most important thing that signals the strong male is direct and steady eye contact. You only need to hold eye contact initially upon meeting someone or clocking eyes on them suddenly for a fairly brief period of time, say a good few seconds. After that it may become slightly uncomfortable and you have to take a break from looking too long in their eyes at any one time. And that's okay as long as you DO NOT look downwards towards the ground when you do so. Looking down after engaging in direct eye contact is the prime way to communicate inferiority. Only animals with very low social value tend to look down. So if you need a break from eye contact, look to your left or your right for a bit and then re-engage the eye contact. Now, I will tell you about an eye contact trick that will make it so easy for you to hold eye contact for as long as you wish and I promise you it will ramp up your attractiveness no end in your interactions with women. What you do is this: when looking at someone, instead of looking straight in their eyes and hitting that point when it becomes uncomfortable, focus your eyes on their eyebrows instead and keep looking at the eyebrows. You will find that when you do this, you can maintain direct eye contact for as long as you need to and be in total control of the process and never feel awkward about it. |
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