Citizenship, generosity, manners. Where do we learn them? Home? School? Church? I think most of us would say home. Then why is it that when we are at home, our mouths and manners are at their lowest? You know what Im talking about. Your son is sarcastic and mouthy. Or your daughter procrastinates before she obeys. How are we supposed to feel loved, treasured, and special when behaviors are lousy in our homes? Moms, we arent blameless ourselves either! When was the last time we used the words, dumb, or stupid, even if only aimed at a TV? Its not surprising that weve slacked off the way the world is today. Its so common to forget about being kind and gentle. People should assume were only joking when we act this way right? WRONG! I urge you to change the way you think. Lets not allow our children to belittle each other. Lets expect respect, kindness to others, cooperation, promptness, dependability, and sensitivity in our families. Lets stress character education in our homes! No matter what size your family is, a selfless attitude goes miles in maintaining a kind and gentle home. Things will go smoother and more enjoyable for everyone without all the bickering and picking up of hurt feelings. We need to remember that our houses shouldnt be war zones but havens from the trials of the world. Lets wake up and soften all of our tongues. Youll be amazed at just how far the language has gotten in your home! I think its time we all do a little house cleaning. Wouldnt you? |